Crying
Babies cry for lots of reasons. It’s how they let you know they need something, like a cuddle, a feed, or a nappy change. Their brains aren’t developed enough yet to calm themselves or understand what’s going on.
It’s normal for babies to cry more often from around 2 weeks old. Crying usually increases over the next few weeks and peaks at around 6 to 8 weeks. Most babies start to cry less from then on.
After about 5 months, experts say that crying becomes more ‘purposeful’. That means after this age, your baby is more likely to be crying for a reason.
Crying can be upsetting for parents and carers, and that’s natural. It’s designed to get your attention quickly. The most important thing to remember is that crying is normal, and it will get better.
Sometimes, babies cry for no clear reason, and nothing seems to settle them. This can be hard, but it doesn’t harm your baby and it will pass.
If you're feeling overwhelmed, it's okay to take a short break or ask your partner to step in and help, as long as your baby is somewhere safe.
You could also speak to your Health Visitor, a family member or a friend for support.
It's never okay to shake a baby. Shaking can cause serious brain injuries, which can lead to death or long-term problems.
More information
ICON helps parents and carers understand that it's normal for babies to cry. They also share ways to comfort your baby.
For information on soothing a crying baby, visit the NHS website.
